Life's Obstacles

Vanishing Acts By Jodi Picoult

This week I read the book Vanishing Acts by Jodi Picoult. In it, the main character, Delia Hopkins, faces many challenges before she can live a better life. They also affect her emotionally. She doesn't know what she wants out of life, or how to live it, which causes problems. She wants her life to be normal again, but knowing it won't be crushes her.

One example of this is when she realizes she was kidnapped at age 4 from her mother by her dad. She always thought that her mom had died in a car accident, because she trusted her dad. I think that she had no idea what to do when she found out, so she went numb for a bit. She had never had reason not to trust her dad, and when she found out he had been lying her whole life, it killed her, as it would anyone else. No one wants to learn they've been living a lie. 

Another example of this is Eric. Franz, their other best friend, still loves Delia, and she doesn't really realize it. But when she has problems with Eric, her fiance, she immediately goes to Franz. This kills him, knowing he's only second best. And when Delia finds out Eric's been drinking again and goes to Franz, it only creates more problems between them which she has to solve. This is probably very stressful to her, having to choose between her two best friends.

I think that Delia is having problems that anyone would. Her father is in jail, her mother has been alive for her whole life, and she doesn't know which friend she loves more. Everyone has problems they have to deal with, no matter how small. I think the author wants to show that no one has a perfect life or a life without problems. Picoult wants to show that you have to make your own choices, and everything might be ok in the end. Not perfect, but better. Also, she wants to show that you have to be strong and face your problems head on, otherwise they won't go away. This is what Delia does and for her, it works.

How Far Will They Go?

Vanishing Acts

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In 'Vanishing Acts' by Jodi Picoult, it is really proved to you how far a parent will go to help their child. Especially when Arthur is accused of kidnapping.

Delia probably felt like she had lived a normal life, just without a mother. She had a loving dad, two best friends, and a house in the suburbs. But when her father is accused of kidnapping her, Delia's world turns upside-down. She finds out that her mom is, in fact, still alive and well and living in Arizona. What she finds out is that her dad kidnapped her when she was four, because her parents were divorced and her mother was a drunk. Arthur knew that he was facing huge charges when he left Arizona, but he went anyway for Delia's sake. I think that he wanted Delia to have the best life possible, and for him, that wasn't with her mom. So he risked a lifetime in jail for his daughter. 

Another example is when Delia held off from saying yes to Eric's marriage proposal. She loved him, and they had been best friends since preschool, but she didn't accept, not until he stopped drinking. She says in the book that it was because she hated the smell of alcohol, but I think that it is partly because she had seen Eric's mom drunk when she was a kid and hated it, and she wanted what was best for their child. They didn't get married until he had stopped drinking. 

This connects to my life because I know that parents do things every day for their kids, in order for them to have a better life. It might be something small, like giving their kid the last bit of ice cream when they want it for themselves. But it could be something extreme, like sacrificing their own life for their child's. They are constantly trying to make our lives  the best they can, no matter what the cost.

The Better One: Sibling Rivalries

                      A Fraction of the Whole by Steve Toltz

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This week, I read A Fraction of the Whole by Steve Toltz. It's about brothers Martin and Terry Dean and Martin's son Jasper. But Terry is Australia's most wanted criminal for killing people who cheated playing sports, and Martin was in a coma for the first 4 years of Terry's life. When he awoke, they met a criminal in jail at the time after Terry got an injury to his leg by knife and was prevented from being a sport prodigy. The criminal, Harry West, helps Terry and two 'friends' become better criminals. But Terry doesn't listen and stay hidden, he wants to be famous and create a name for himself so he murders cheaters. There is a forest fire in Martin's home town, killing his parents and Terry, who is trapped in jail. Or so everyone thinks. Then Harry writes a book about criminals and the publisher changes the author to Terry, because he thinks Harry is a pen name. This gets both the publisher and Martin (the editor) arrested, but Martin escapes with his other 'friend' to Thailand. They go to Eddie's friend, Mr. Lung, and Martin is shocked by what he sees. Terry is standing in front of him, obviously not dead. And by the way, Martin's wife was dating Terry before he 'died' and they obviously still love eachother. 

I think that a problem constantly occurring in this story is sibling rivalry. It starts when Terry's later accomplices chase and tease Martin. At this point Terry is the talk of the town, being the best cricket player, rugby player, and swimmer, and he hates when people cheat. So when Martin utters the words, "they cheated", Terry attacks and they stab his leg with a knife, preventing him from ever playing sports again. Martin probably knew that they would attack, and didn't want to be living in his brother's shadow. Everyone compared him to Terry, and he must have felt like he was not Martin Dean, but 'Terry's brother'. But it backfired when Terry resorted to criminalism. 

Martin later constructs a suggestion box for the town hall. The ideas started positive and helpful, but turned to, 'Terry Dean should be put in a mental hospital'. When he comes out, he starts murdering cheaters and becomes a famous criminal. Again, Martin is 'Terry Dean's brother". He was living in Terry's shadow and he felt cheated. Even his crush on Caroline, his neighbor, was ruined because she liked Terry more than him.

When Terry 'dies', I think Martin felt relieved and free. He didn't do anything to Terry, yet he was gone and couldn't outshine Martin. But he was still a shadow. So when he discovered that Terry was actually alive, well, and very rich, he was crushed. And he finds out that Terry has been caring for him, which probably makes him ashamed. Terry has, through Eddie, given Martin 2 jobs, huge sums of money, and a safe haven. Terry is still the top brother.

I think that most people with siblings can relate to this. I know I can. My brother will always do something that makes me feel like he's so much better than me, and my parents love him more, etc. And then he'll do something nice that makes me feel ashamed (he gave me the bigger room at our country house) and makes me dislike him even more for being nice to me, for being the better sibling. And he probably feels that way about me, just like Terry felt like Martin got more attention in his coma. I know that I can a lot of things better than my brother, but it doesn't feel like that a lot of the time. And this is what causes sibling rivalries.

Am I Blue?

 No One Likes a Hypocrite

     The short story 'Am I Blue?' by Bruce Coville is about 16 year old boy Vincent, who can't decide whether he is gay or not. He finds out that he has a fairy godfather and three wishes to spend. When Melvin, the fairy godfather, turns everyone who is gay or has had a gay thought blue, Vincent discovers that more than one person he knows are hypocrites. And when Melvin lets everyone across America see who's blue, it creates a huge problem for them. They show that being a hypocrite is not good.

     One person he discovers blue is Butch Carrigan, the school bully. Just earlier that day, Butch beat him up and called him  a fruit. But when Melvin returns from Butch's house-- "Butch Carrigan was already blue as a summer sky"-- Vincent discovers that Butch was bluer than him. And he was probably teased for the rest of his school years for being a hypocrite. If he had admitted to everyone that he was gay in the beginning, there would have been less trouble for him when everyone turned blue.

     Another hypocrite, an even bigger one than Butch, was one Vincent saw on TV. The victim was a Republican congressman. That congressman happened to be talking about "the great crime of homosexuality" and "the gay threat to American youth". He was not only talking about gay people in a bad way, he was in a political party against what he was. I think that they became hypocrites after they realized they were gay. They probably didn't want anyone else finding out and ridiculing them. Butch didn't want to be teased, so he beat up other gays. The Republican Congressman didn't want to be found out, so he hated on gays.

     And maybe some people who are gay didn't realize it or didn't admit it to themselves until it was too late. For example, Mr Albert, "the fat guy who ran the grocery store, looked like a giant blueberry- which surprised me, because he was married and had 3 kids". When his wife and kids saw him, they would be confused and possibly mad that he never said anything. And vice versa. "Ms Thorndyke, the librarian, who everyone knew was a lesbian, didn't have a trace of blue on her". She might have not known it herself, as everyone assumed she was gay.
     Everyone seeing the blue was probably a lot easier on Vincent, who everyone knew was a bit gay. He wasn't hypocritical and it paid off.
     I think that being a hypocrite is bad, even though many people, including me, go against what they sad or thought. sometimes it is for the better- for example, you hate someone, but are nice to them- but most of the time it is wrong and will just end up hurting you. Say the person you were being nice to finds out you've hated them all along. they will hate you more than if you just admitted that you didn't like them from the beginning. And everyone hates a hypocrite, especially if it affects a lot of people or is about themselves.
     This story shows that being hypocritical doesn't pay off and usually ends up coming back and hurting you.